Getting to know the 5 stages of Pornography addiction
- The first stage is when guys (or girls) are first exposed to it and it seems like nothing at first but it can grow but this is only the biggining.
- The second stage Is when that person is finnally addicted to porn, It becomes something they do everyday, and they are addicted and they can't stop it.
- The third stage is when the addiction escalates and they cant get enough or be staisfied with what they have been watching before. They want to watch the more intriging hard and rougher porn. It is something that would have been disgusting and frist but now it is interesting.
- The fourth stage of desensetation is when no porn interestes them anymore and everything is boring and won't get your blood pumping. They want to feel what they've used to feel when they watched porn but nothing gives them that feeling anymore.
- The fifth stage is when people mainly men will want to jump out into the world and try to act out sexually. Mostly in the form of rape and murder which is how many serial rapist and killers start out.
What Pornography tells us
Pornogrpahy can tell men expesially lie's about women and how they are less then human. I said espesially because in some ways in can do the same thing to women about men but that isn't as common. Pornography can tell us how women are property or just used for sport and how women like the degrading things that porn shows men doing to them. It tell us that a women's value is based on her attrativeness and her body, and that women acually like rape. All those things and just pure evil lie's. Women aren't a sport, property, they dont like rape, their value isnt measured in thier attractiveness and they surely aren't less than human. For the Bible says "Ancient prophecy was fullfilled when the Spirit of God was givin equally to men and women on Pentecost" (Acts 2:17) Even the Bible the most acient most read book even in the world states that God see's men and Women equally and they are not less then human or less than men, so they shouldn't be treated as such. Also if women are equal to men how can they be a soprt or property? The truth and Fact of the matter is that they aren't and shouldnt be. God want us to keep our hearts and souls pure and Holy but sexual sins like porn do the opposite so you need to run away from that and towards God if you want true happyness.
The biggest problem of pornography
The problem about it is if someone wants to break their addiction it is almost impossible for them to do it on their own will. Also if someone trying to stop someone else from that addiction it is pratically impossible to block all the routes to pornography. Pornography can be can been seen, veiwed, and watched in so many different ways it is unrealistic to stop all the ways it is found in this world. It is a addiction harder to break then cocaine or nicotine. It is also a big money maker, so if someone wants to view it some places they have to pay to view it, and vise versa the owners wont try to stop it or anything because of the amount of money they make off of those sites and magazines. It causes men to lose self-esteem and to begin to doubt themselves and lose their own identity.
Ripping apart relationships
Porn can rip apart anything from person things, social, and even spiritual. Friendships that for a while can seem strong and stable. But Porn can dissrupt it, sometimes it soesnt even seem like they are doing anything wrong because porn changed them a little and it can tear that friendship apart. People even think porn can help them with their friendships with the other sex, they think it helps them know how to treat them but thats wrong, just pure wrong. It only warps and changes how you think of them then because of that you may not realize that one thing you would have seen as clearly wrong is now seems complely acceptable. It can pull apart couples creating fights and problems. It changes what men espeacally think is the main purpose of marrige (they think it is the marrage bed). Women and men have different views to start with and porn only intesifies and breaking more rifts between the differences, Porn can never help a relationship it only pulls them apart.